What to Wear to a Destination Wedding: 15 Wedding Guest Dresses I’m Obsessed with

I LOVE destination weddings. Don’t get me wrong, I love every wedding. But when you get to combine celebrating love with a vacation in an exotic tropical destination? The best.  I’m all for celebrating my favorite couples’ nuptials in tropical, exotic locales like Bali, Hawaii, The Amalfi Coast, Italy, Mexico or France. There’s only one problem – PACKING! What do you wear to a destination wedding? And what are some good destination wedding dresses for guests heading to 2021 and 2022 weddings? I’m here for ya, chicas. And I even have some awesome recommendations for what your guy should wear to a destination too at the bottom of this post!

What are the best dresses for destination weddings?

Don’t be afraid of bold color, and a pretty tropical print that suits the destination. 

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MISA Los Angeles X REVOLVE Micaela Dress in Sky Blue

I love this dress for a beachy destination wedding, love the coral print!

I see this yellow dress looking fuego at a Mexico wedding in Cabo or Tulum, or somewhere else South of the Border like Colombia

House of Harlow 1960 x REVOLVE Rosaline Dress in Yellow

Karina Grimaldi Pauline Dot Dress in Blush

SAU LEE Sofia Dress in Red Floral

Moments Of Bliss Forest Green Backless Mermaid Maxi Dress

SAU LEE Rosie Gown in Lavender

I see this lavender gown at a chic wine country wedding, France wedding, or Italian countryside!


Katie May X REVOLVE Bambina Dress in Sky

Currently OBSESSING over this dress, which I bought for a wedding.


This is the ideal destination wedding welcome party outfit. Such a showstopper. 

Norma Kamali X REVOLVE Diana Gown in Orchid Pink

I love the color of this dress for a destination wedding because it pops! So cute. 

Susana Monaco Strapless Hi Low Dress in Perfect Red

You can’t go wrong with a classic red.


I love this dress for a tropical wedding guest.

Bayside Breeze Yellow Multi Print Halter Maxi Dress

Tricks of the Trade Forest Green Maxi Dress


ROCOCO SAND Aria Maxi Dress in Peach

I have this dress in another color and I am OBSESSED with it.

Michael Costello x REVOLVE Generosity Dress in Seafoam I wore this dress to a black-tie wedding in Paris and it was such a hit! it’s been sold out forever but is finally back!

What shoes should I wear to a destination wedding?

Find out what kind of ground you’ll be on (if you’re on a lawn or in the sand, you will want to stay away from stilettos), if you’re in a ballroom, anything goes. 

I love wedges for outdoor weddings because you don’t have to worry about grass or sand getting in the way of you having a great time – and they’re SO much more comfortable. These ones from Tamara Mellon are my go-tos

 I love investing in a pair of good, comfy nude heels because they go with every dress, so I can wear them wedding after wedding after wedding!


I always go for chunky heels when I know there will be a lot of dancing, SO much more comfortable.  

Dolce Vita Noles Sandal in NudeSteve Madden Camille Sandal in Clear

What should men wear to a destination wedding?

Pay close attention to what the invite states as the dress code. There’s a big difference between a ‘beach wedding’ attire and ‘tropical formal’ or ‘tropical elegant’ attire. If the wedding you’re attending leans less formal, you won’t be expected to wear a suit and tie (they should make it clear on the wedding website whether or not guys are supposed to wear suit jackets and ties), and you’re definitely not expected to go black-tie. However, with a tropical elegant or tropical formal dress code, you should assume a suit or blazer (a tan, grey, blue or cream-colored linen suit with a white shirt will keep you looking good and feeling cool), and you should refer to the dress code to see if you should wear a tie or not. 

No matter what, unless it’s strictly stated somewhere, stay away from sandals, shorts, or anything overly casual. This is a wedding, after all.

So what should a guy wear to have some fun at a destination wedding, while still looking elegant and formal enough?

I love when guys pair a Hawaiian shirt with a blazer! Kenny Flowers Hawaiians have awesome prints (that range from trendy and wild to subtle and preppy, to tropical and fun, depending on the type of guy you are or the vibe you’re going for)  They look great under a blazer and are a great way to tow the line between fun, beach wedding and elegant, formal affair. 

VINCE CAMUTO Regular Fit Sport Coat, Main, color, INDIGO HEATHER


BONOBOS Slim Fit Chambray Cotton Blazer, Main, color, SOLID BLUE


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